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#author("2021-11-19T00:35:08+09:00","","") https://castbox.fm/episode/Details-On-My-Upcoming-Guide-id4671896-id442402754 https://castbox.fm/episode/When-It-All-Falls-Down-id4671896-id442837103 https://castbox.fm/episode/How-to-Know-You%E2%80%99re-With-the-Wrong-Guy--7-Signs-He%E2%80%99s-Not-Mr.-Right-For-Dating-or-Marriage-id4671896-id442839011 https://devfolio.co/@okcupid https://noti.st/okcupid/J3Vjky/about-properly-educating-guys https://noti.st/okcupid/vNEXdN/why-you-arent-getting-better-with-women https://www.bookmess.com/t/68414 https://blog.naver.com/PostView.naver?blogId=freedating&Redirect=View&logNo=222572233602&categoryNo=1&isAfterWrite=true&isMrblogPost=false&isHappyBeanLeverage=true&contentLength=18999 https://jump2.bdimg.com/mo/q/checkurl?url=https%3A%2F%2Floveawake.com/free-online-dating/Italy-dating-service.html https://www.dwell.com/home/how-to-control-your-relationship-b5498e5b https://www.zupyak.com/p/2033861/t/my-husband-may-be-the-father-of-another-womans-child https://www.zupyak.com/p/2630655/t/one-night-stands-102 https://www.zupyak.com/p/1427895/t/does-he-like-me-and-can-i-ask-him #author("2021-12-15T08:11:47+09:00","","") High fives all around. I at least had to end the night like an asshole should. Yes, I know, every young lady is convinced that her boyfriend is the exception. That he’s never going to stray. And maybe he won’t, but it won’t be because he really, really, really loves you. Or because he’s a really, really, really great guy. It will be simply because suitable opportunities don’t present themselves at the right time. Fortunately for you idealistic young ladies out there, true opportunities are fairly hard to come by for the typical guy. First, most guys aren’t exactly babe magnets. Second, most guys have a good understanding of danger and that most risks aren’t worth taking. So in most cases, he’s going to decide that even though his co-worker is hot, she’s a bad risk. Not really a suitable opportunity, in other words. Same with the hot girl in the apartment next door. Same with most women he’s going to see in day to day life. But at a party? With a few drinks in him, his threshold for “suitable” opportunities is lowered significantly. He’s going to flirt with and possibly pursue girls he might not in other circumstances. So IMHO, it actually *is* worth your while to defuse these situations. Especially because it’s so easy if you’re already there. A simple tug on his leash is all it takes. Basically let him know you’re here and wise to what might be going on. Be cool and don’t make a big fuss. You just want to remind him that you’re there and you’re not blind. Nip these opportunities in the bud and with a little luck (for you, not him,) his other opportunities will be few.
